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What I Found are the Pros & Cons to Living Alone

The Pros To Living Alone:

  • You can do whatever you want, whenever you want, whenever you feel like it.
  • You can eat anything at any time without the fear of judgment.
  • You can walk around naked and not worry about anyone seeing as long as the curtains are closed.
  • You don’t have to worry about hogging the bathroom or if someone else is and might make you late for work in the morning.
  • You have a whole bed to yourself to spread out and relax.
  • You can wake up and go to bed anytime you want.
  • You have control over the air conditioner.
  • You can buy whatever you want at the store.
  • There is no one to tempt you to impulse buy, so it’s easier to save money.
  • You use less gas only having to drive to places you need/want to go to.
  • You clean and organize way more.
  • You feel like a mature adult.

The Cons To Living Alone:

  • You talk to yourself a lot including:
  1. Having a full-on back-and-forth conversation with yourself.
  2. Laughing at yourself.
  3. Commenting on yourself in the mirror out loud.
  4. Commenting on a thing you saw on tv, read about in a book or online out loud.
  5. You talk to yourself when checking someone out and giggle with yourself as if you were with your girl friends.
  6. You reprimand yourself by calling yourself by your full name and asking yourself “What were you thinking?”
  7. Talking out loud about what you’re going to do next while cleaning, cooking, driving, organizing, etc.
  • Commercials are way more tortuous with no one around to talk to while you wait for your show to go back on.
  • No one is there to help you wake up in the morning in case you hit the snooze button too many times.
  • No one is there when you need a comforting hug.
  • You only have you and your pillow to cuddle with at night and late into the morning.
  • If you’re trying to decide what outfit to wear or how to do your make-up that day, no one is there to help you choose.
  • No one is there to help rub aloe vera onto your sunburnt back.
  • You people watch way more and talk out loud to yourself as you imagine what they’re doing.
  • You curse at crazy idiots who can’t drive correctly way more than usual by also having a conversation with yourself about how can people be so stupid.
  • You start up small conversations with strangers every where you go, whether at the bank or the food market.
  • You think you’re going crazy talking to yourself so much.
  • You have to do everything yourself and miss your parents doing some things for you.

Nothing like living alone to make you realize how many responsibilities there really is when you grow up. Makes me appreciate living with my parents still, as well as my house mates in college. Going to enjoy it for as long as it lasts until I have to live alone, probably from a job not near my family or college friends.

Obviously you can tell there are more cons than pros to this list. Once I do have to live alone though for more than just the summer, I hope it’s not for more than a year, because I’m such a talkative people person I don’t think I’d be able to handle more than a year of living by myself.

Truth be told. What are your thoughts on living alone? Would you recommend it or absolutely stay away from it? Love to know what you all think!

Jennifer Gioia (c) 2014

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“IF/THEN” The Musical on Broadway, Featuring Idina Menzel – Review

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IF/THEN is a Broadway musical featuring the famous Idina Menzel. Let me tell you, she is so much better live in person than on television. That woman’s voice is heavenly. The octaves and ranges she can reach are incredible.

The plot is about Menzel’s main character, Elizabeth who just moved back to NYC after divorcing her husband in Phoenix.  There she meets her old college friends, makes a bunch of new friends, and finds love. Elizabeth is all about weighing the possibilities of any and every situation, especially when it comes to her love life.

The first act jumps between alternate realties depending on which path Elizabeth was to choose in a certain situation. After a fifteen minute intermission, some great dialogue, dancing, and singing, Elizabeth finds herself in a situation where she doubts the path she chose.

Her life revolves around all these “what if’s” and not until the near end does she realize that’s not a way to live life.

I won’t tell you anymore details (don’t want to ruin it for you), but it definitely has a great life lesson. You can’t doubt your life and focus on your past’s “what if’s”. You need to focus on the path you chose and stick with it, no matter what pain or happiness it brings your way. Maybe its destiny; maybe it’s your own decision. Either way, focus on the future and your current path, not the other paths you’ve already passed by. If you do, you won’t be living your life to the fullest.

One thing is for sure though, if my boyfriend is serious about joining the army after he graduates just because he thinks it’ll be easier after four years of service to be able to get his dream law enforcement park ranger position, he needs to rethink his options. Because no way in hell will I be able to deal with him away for four years with barely any contact, where he’ll be in a war zone thousands of miles away from me. I’d go insane, thinking if he was killed today or the next day. I wouldn’t be able to handle that.

So, here’s the connection to Memorial Day. Not only am I thankful for my troops, but I greatly admire the families and friends that deal with their loved ones being in the military. Let us be grateful for those who have given their lives to our country.

And I might be selfish for this, but I don’t care, my boyfriend isn’t allowed to give his life to our country if it means it can be taken away. He’s supposed to give his life to me, as I give my life to him. It’s not allowed to be shared. He’s all mine.

So ending on a selfish note like this isn’t that great of a review. But, I would definitely recommend IF/THEN to anyone and everyone, especially the hopeless romantic.

Be prepared to tear up at some parts and laugh at others. I hope (but it probably won’t happen) that IF/THEN gets turned into a movie, so I can watch it whenever I want. That’s how good it is. A-

2014 (c) Jennifer Gioia

Update – BIG NEWS!

Hi everyone.

I want to apologize for my silence these past months. Life can get pretty crazy and in the way sometimes, especially college. Happy 2014, by the way! Just to bring you all up to speed: I am still with my boyfriend Ben. We just celebrated our two and a half year anniversary this past Wednesday. Things are still going strong and better than ever. :)

I love my Public Relations major at SUNY Plattsburgh, but I do have to stay an extra semester now because I changed my major a little bit too late. So now I will be graduating December 2015 instead of May 2015. No big deal. The way I see it, I get to be around my friends longer.

June 2nd I start my first real paid internship at Harvest Technologies in their marketing department. I’m so excited to be spending the whole summer in Plymouth, Massachusetts (maybe by the end of the summer I’ll finally be able to spell the state correctly without spell check). Three others around my age and I will be the only interns in the whole company; can you believe it? I already met one through social media. She’s working in the marketing department with me and seems really nice. I wonder if the other two will as well? I wonder if they’re also girls?

Anyway, I will be spending my whole summer, starting next weekend, in MA (I’m cheating by abbreviating, I know) in a bed and breakfast. So I plan on making multiple journal posts here weekly about the many different kinds of families that I will get to witness living in a B&B for three months. Also, a travel category of posts will be popping up here about the many places I will visit; mostly beaches, local eateries, and a few movies here and there I will see in theaters. If you don’t already know it, you’ll know it within the next month that I’m a huge foodie! So be on the look out for some food, movie, and beach reviews.

Don’t worry, there’ll probably be a few poetry posts thrown into the mix every now and then as well. I’ll give you a warning now, they’ll probably be about how much I’m going to miss Ben. But hey, maybe I’ll surprise the both of us and write about something unexpected.

Are you as excited as I am that I’ll be posting more on here? I hope so!

To give you something to look forward to, I will be attending the If/Then Broadway musical tomorrow with my parents. So I’ll be writing a review for that soon. It has to be somewhat good, I mean Idina Menzel is starring in it! If it isn’t good, at least it’ll be amazing to hear her sing live in person! So that’s exciting.

Well, have a great memorial weekend everyone. See you all soon! Much love,

Jen