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What I Found are the Pros & Cons to Living Alone

The Pros To Living Alone:

  • You can do whatever you want, whenever you want, whenever you feel like it.
  • You can eat anything at any time without the fear of judgment.
  • You can walk around naked and not worry about anyone seeing as long as the curtains are closed.
  • You don’t have to worry about hogging the bathroom or if someone else is and might make you late for work in the morning.
  • You have a whole bed to yourself to spread out and relax.
  • You can wake up and go to bed anytime you want.
  • You have control over the air conditioner.
  • You can buy whatever you want at the store.
  • There is no one to tempt you to impulse buy, so it’s easier to save money.
  • You use less gas only having to drive to places you need/want to go to.
  • You clean and organize way more.
  • You feel like a mature adult.

The Cons To Living Alone:

  • You talk to yourself a lot including:
  1. Having a full-on back-and-forth conversation with yourself.
  2. Laughing at yourself.
  3. Commenting on yourself in the mirror out loud.
  4. Commenting on a thing you saw on tv, read about in a book or online out loud.
  5. You talk to yourself when checking someone out and giggle with yourself as if you were with your girl friends.
  6. You reprimand yourself by calling yourself by your full name and asking yourself “What were you thinking?”
  7. Talking out loud about what you’re going to do next while cleaning, cooking, driving, organizing, etc.
  • Commercials are way more tortuous with no one around to talk to while you wait for your show to go back on.
  • No one is there to help you wake up in the morning in case you hit the snooze button too many times.
  • No one is there when you need a comforting hug.
  • You only have you and your pillow to cuddle with at night and late into the morning.
  • If you’re trying to decide what outfit to wear or how to do your make-up that day, no one is there to help you choose.
  • No one is there to help rub aloe vera onto your sunburnt back.
  • You people watch way more and talk out loud to yourself as you imagine what they’re doing.
  • You curse at crazy idiots who can’t drive correctly way more than usual by also having a conversation with yourself about how can people be so stupid.
  • You start up small conversations with strangers every where you go, whether at the bank or the food market.
  • You think you’re going crazy talking to yourself so much.
  • You have to do everything yourself and miss your parents doing some things for you.

Nothing like living alone to make you realize how many responsibilities there really is when you grow up. Makes me appreciate living with my parents still, as well as my house mates in college. Going to enjoy it for as long as it lasts until I have to live alone, probably from a job not near my family or college friends.

Obviously you can tell there are more cons than pros to this list. Once I do have to live alone though for more than just the summer, I hope it’s not for more than a year, because I’m such a talkative people person I don’t think I’d be able to handle more than a year of living by myself.

Truth be told. What are your thoughts on living alone? Would you recommend it or absolutely stay away from it? Love to know what you all think!

Jennifer Gioia (c) 2014

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Without You

At night I lie awake,

and I think of you.

I wonder if you think of me too.

Do you have just as much trouble

falling asleep without me

as I do you?

I hold back tears,

as I look at the emptiness

next to me in our bed.

They slowly escape anyway.

I wipe them away.

I won’t let myself break.

Why can’t the days move any faster

so you could be in my arms once again?

I feel pathetic,

and lonely,

and lost.

I don’t have a home,

without you.

Continue reading Without You

New story!

Thanks to my ENG303 Writing Fiction Workshop course, I’ve finished my short story, “Not Meant To Be?”.

Unfortunately, for you, I am only posting once every Friday. So if you would like, click the cover below and be brought to Wattpad.com, where I post most of my original fiction.

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Alissa Adams and Marc Archer plan on getting married once they graduate college. However, one drunken girl’s night at the club has lead her waking up next to a naked stranger. Alissa has cheated on her longtime boyfriend, current fiancé. In a state of shock, she makes her way back to her apartment and climbs into bed, hoping it all to be a nightmare. Although fantasy is sending her texts, she needs to answer the door, because reality is knocking.

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I Remember

Duncan and I at 12 years old.
Duncan, 8, and I, 12, the day we put him down.

I remember waking up

but not what time.

I remember my father crying

but not knowing why.

I remember the drive to say goodbye

but not where we were headed.

I remember seeing him in pain,

but not being able to help.

I remember my parents talking to a doctor

but not about what.

I remember holding his paw

as he slowly drifted away.

Continue reading I Remember

Giving Into Pleasure

This piece of fiction I wrote for my final in my Intro. to Writing Fiction course. I hope you all enjoy. Just a warning, there is some explicit and sexual content involved. Jennifer Gioia (c) 2012 Continue reading Giving Into Pleasure

I Was Going Crazy, Love Can Do That To You.

 

I felt like I was going crazy.

Especially when winter break first started.

I was having Ben withdrawals.

I was missing you like crazy that it hurt.

I don’t think I’ve ever missed someone so much in my life,

Other than my deceased dog.

Then when I finally said I love you to you,

I’ve never been so scared in my life.

I know there was no reason to be scared,

I mean you said it before me,

But I don’t know.

People say love makes you feel crazy,

And boy did I feel crazy.

I’ve just never felt like this before about anybody.

And it kind of scares me,

How much I’m letting you in.

I know my insecurities might seem silly,

But they’re true,

And they’re there:

They’re not going away anytime soon.

Just know that I love you. Continue reading I Was Going Crazy, Love Can Do That To You.

How To Love Again

 

When you first told me you loved me,

I freaked.

I had been single for exactly a year before I met you,

And now you’re telling me those three words.

Those heavy three words mean so much,

Yet came so easily off your tongue.

 

I haven’t loved in so long,

And I’m scared to take the leap.

I know you will catch me,

Its just been so long.

I’m scared of what we have,

I’m scared of loosing it,

Loosing you.

 

You’re teaching me how to love again,

And it brings joy to me.

You bring joy to my world.

Please don’t leave me.

 

I bet you find my insecurities silly,

But no matter how much you will reassure me,

I will always have them.

 

Can I say that I imagine a future with you?

Can I say that it might be longer than you have planned…?

 

I think I’m falling a little too hard for you,

And that’s what scares me.

It’ll be easier to get hurt,

And I don’t want to get hurt.

 

Especially because,

I love you.

Continue reading How To Love Again